When dementia enters a family, it can change far more than memory—it can affect personality, judgment, independence, relationships, finances, and the lives of everyone providing care.

In this episode of Get Savvy…Demystifying Healthcare, Sandy talks with licensed clinical social worker and Compassion Works founder Kay Adams, who brings more than 30 years of experience in geriatrics, hospice, palliative care, dementia, and caregiver support.

Kay explains some of the early changes families should watch for, why getting an evaluation and diagnosis can be so important, and why planning ahead with advanced directives, education, and support can help families navigate what comes next.

Kay also shares an important message for caregivers: you cannot—and should not—try to do this alone. From building a “care community” and asking for help early to preparing for changes before a crisis occurs.

Kay offers practical guidance for families facing one of life’s most challenging journeys. She also discusses her work through CompassionWorks and her book Bedside Witness, which uses real-life caregiving stories to educate, encourage, and validate the often-unsung heroes caring for people living with dementia and other serious illnesses.